Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus

In this post i would like to write my own opinion about a loving relationship based on book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". Actually my opinion is focusing on a loving relationship issue, not for the book. But i will try my best to use the book as a source for my opinion. I will not use the whole book as a source for my opinion. I just take some sample that related to my opinion. I decided to use two paragraph from the first chapter.

"Falling in love is always magical. It feels eternal, as if love will last forever. We naïvely believe that somehow we are exempt from the problems our parents had, free from the odds that love will die,assured that it is meant to be and that we are destined to live happily ever after."

"Each day millions of individuals are searching for a partner to experience that special loving feeling. Each year, millions of couples join together in love and then painfully separate because they have lost that loving feeling. From those who are able to sustain love long enough to get married, only 50 percent stay married. Out of those who stay together, possibly another 50 percent are not fulfilled. They stay together out of loyalty and obligation or from the fear of starting over"

Before starting a loving relationship there is one thing that must not be forgotten. Rational thinking must not be forgotten in order to avoid nonsense relationship. Nonsense relationship might lead to the nonsense result. One of the possibility result from nonsense relationship is a slavery in relationship because of love. I have seen many times those kind of relationship by my own eyes. When I see such kind relationship i always wonder "how could it happen?".

The main point i would like to tell is always make preparation for our life. Even though preparation is impossible to solve everyproblem we will face, preparation is able to give some aids when we face problems in our live. Preparation is also valid in a loving relationship. No one wants to have such nonsense relationship that might lead to the nonsense life.